Article from: Fish- soulfood served fresh; Vol. 2 #9 p.19
Article by: Zsa Zsa M. Briones, MA Psych.

Rules of Attraction:

Some psychologists say that people tend to be attracted to individuals who are like themselves. Unknowingly, we gravitate toward some people with whom we share common likes and dislikes. When these two individuals come together, it may feel like an endless high because you share so much in common. You might feel like you found "the one" for you.

On the other hand, other researchers claim that people are captivated by their opposite, so the saying "opposites attract." People may be attracted to characteristics perceived lacking in themselves which are present in individuals who are their opposite. What the parties involved may not see is that the less obvious similarities may be present to bind them and attract them to each other more: religion, socio- economic status, upbringing, etc.

----> so what do you think is the real rule for attraction?!!


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I found this post in a social networking site that I was a member years ago..haha